One of the greatest gifts
You can give yourself
is forgiveness.
Not the fragile kind
that pretends nothing happened.
Not the docile kind
that hands your dignity
back to the person
who tried to mishandle it.
No.
I mean the regal kind.
The kind that stands
in full regality,
eyes clear,
spirit luminous,
crown unbothered,
and says:
I release you
because I refuse
to keep drinking poison
from an antiquated cup.
I forgive you
because my vitality
is too sacred
to be squandered
on rancor.
I forgive everyone,
not because everyone was right,
not because the wound was plausible,
not because of the betrayal
deserves a velvet chair
inside my memory.
I forgive
because my spirit
was not created
to become a permanent resident
for bitterness.
Let that be written clearly.
Forgiveness is not appeasement.
It is discernment
with clean hands.
It is the audacity
to free yourself
without waiting
for an apology
that may never learn
How to walk upright.
It is the quiet correction
of the soul
after years
of carrying despondent stories
that were never yours
to mother.
Some people will call it a weakness
because they only recognize power
When it arrives armed.
But I know better.
Power can be soft
and still be final.
Power can forgive
and still close the gate.
Power can bless the lesson,
decline the invitation,
and sleep beautifully at night.
Very elegantly, of course.
I forgive the ones
who misunderstood me.
I forgive the ones
who underestimated the temple
standing inside my chest.
I forgive the ones
Who spilled fallacies
into the soil
and expected my roots
to forget the sun.
I forgive the ones
who mistook my grace
for gullibility,
my silence for surrender,
my tenderness
for an open door.
Bless their confusion.
But I am no longer
available for the same lesson
wearing different clothes.
Forgiveness does not mean
I return to the fire
to prove I am healed.
Forgiveness means
I walk away
without carrying the smoke
in my lungs.
It means I stop building altars
to old pain.
It means I let the past
lose its jurisdiction
over my body,
my joy,
my laughter,
my mornings,
my money,
My name.
I forgive
So I can rise.
I forgive
So my heart
can breathe again.
I forgive
So my hands
can receive
without trembling.
I forgive
So the sweetness
That is trying to find me
does not have to knock
on a door guarded
by yesterday’s grief.
There is nothing small
about this work.
It takes stamina
to lay down resentment
when the ego still wants
a closing argument.
It takes humility
to admit
that even righteous pain
can become a prison
If you decorate it long enough.
It takes discernment
to know the difference
between remembering
and reliving.
So today,
I forgive.
I forgive everyone.
I forgive with my whole heart,
But I do not abandon
my wisdom.
I forgive with grace,
But I do not relinquish
my boundaries.
I forgive with love,
But I do not negotiate
with disrespect.
I forgive
as a woman
who has learned
the sacred difference
between mercy
and self-erasure.
And when the old rancor
comes looking for me,
dressed in familiar perfume,
calling my name
from the hallway
of what once hurt,
I will answer
with light.
I will answer
with peace.
I will answer
with the kind of silence
that has already chosen freedom.
Because I did not survive
to remain despondent.
I did not heal
to become hardened.
I did not rise
to keep kneeling
before memories
that no longer have authority.
One of the greatest gifts
I can give myself
is forgiveness.
So I give it.
Fully.
Regally.
Without apology.
And then I keep walking,
luminous and unburdened,
toward life
that was waiting
for me to put the weight down–
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